Are you pregnant or do you have a baby under 12 months? A new free pregnancy and antenatal digital support service funded by the NHS has just been launched!
The first phase is a two week trial for participants living in England. If successful, the plan is to roll it out nationwide. This could be so helpful even when the covid-19 crisis is over!
Being at home with a new baby can feel isolating enough at times, but now that the usual group sessions in the form of baby and toddler groups and baby cafés aren’t an option, this could be a really important way for new and expectant parents to feel supported.
What will this free pregnancy and antenatal digital support service look like?
The plan is to provide you with expert support on life with a baby; feeding, sleep, mental health, and more. You’ll have access to one-to-one chat support with expert practitioners and you can ask a question at any time. There will also be small personalised group chats, access to video consultations with breastfeeding and child sleep consultants, and online exercise sessions (which they promise will be safe, fun and effective!).
If the support proves to be helpful, there is the potential for national roll out.
(If you are unfamiliar with the term, an IBCLC is a breastfeeding expert. Highly experienced, trained and qualified to help mothers and babies to breastfeed, they can help with both basic and complex breastfeeding challenges. What they don’t know about boobs, breastfeeding and milk isn’t worth knowing! Find out more at the Lactation Consultants of Great Britain website.)
“Christmastitis – Did you know that rates of mastitis go up around holiday periods?
Why? Well, loads of reasons to be honest. Let’s picture it shall we?
It’s your first Christmas with your baby. You’re mega excited and so is everyone else to have this gorgeous bundle in their lives. Christmas is going to be AWESOME. Lots of travelling around in the car visiting friends and family, making the most of maternity leave to see everyone and proudly show off this little person, taking up offers to go over and be cooked for! And that is genuinely fabulous.
Breasts Not Being Regularly and Fully Emptied
But all that travelling leads to lots of time in the car seat, and for most babies the car seat sends them to sleep. And long sleeps mean long gaps between feeds, which leads to full breasts with potential for blockages…
Then the parties, the gatherings, celebrations! Lovely right?! Yes! Except everyone wants a hold of little baby Rupert and once again he has longer stretches between feeds. And when he does come back to you he’s over stimulated and over tired and only takes two minutes on the breast before he falls asleep leaving you with, you guessed it, full breasts….
Or the guests seem to think they know better than you do about baby Josie’s feeding cues and tell you she doesn’t need feeding, they can settle her for you. They talk about how ‘when they had babies you only fed every four hours and it didn’t do them any harm’. You’re then stuck between a rock and a hard place, because you would like to feed your baby, but you don’t want to upset family or the way they did things, and maybe they’re right?
Feeds are often cut short around celebrations, because you have lots of people offering to help and hold the baby so your dinner doesn’t go cold, or guests arrive, or you’re due somewhere, or you’re upstairs feeding and want to get back down to the party…the list goes on. So your breasts don’t get ’emptied’ like usual and can you guess what happens next? Yep….
Restricted Milk Flow?
Maybe you don’t feel comfortable feeding around Auntie Ethel and Uncle Bernard, so you don’t quite expose your breast as much as you might normally, and your clothes/bra are digging in a little and restricting milk flow and cause a blockage…
Maybe you’re sleeping somewhere different, the bed is different, you can’t quite get the angle of the feed right on this squishy mattress and the latch goes a bit dodgy, but you put up with it because you don’t want the baby to cry and wake everyone. Dodgy latch leads to breast not emptying efficiently…and you know the rest.
Christmas is lovely, but for a huge amount of people it’s also very stressful. Stress hormones can impact on oxytocin, which is the hormone needed to let your milk flow. So stress can temporarily inhibit milk flow leading to those full/blocked breasts again.
I might be coming across as a bit Bah, Humbug! but I’ve been around enough mothers with mastitis to know its REALLY not what you want to be dealing with at any point. It is not to be messed with, it is a serious condition and you can potentially end up very poorly.
What I’m saying is, take it EASY. Plan ahead now to make sure this holiday season is one where you can feed whenever and wherever you need to. Be led by your baby. Don’t stretch out or cut short feeds. Listen to your body, not Auntie Denise.”
If you’re finding you’re struggling with breastfeeding, don’t battle on alone. People often stop breastfeeding in the first month when they experience problems such as sore nipples, inadequate milk production (real or perceived), and difficulties getting the baby feeding. These problems can almost always be overcome with the correct support – and getting help sooner rather than later is definitely the best advice.
You can find a Baby Café near you: https://www.thebabycafe.org/ who offer free drop-in sessions for info, support and advice (part of the National Childbirth Trust, and often run by IBCLCs)
You can employ the services (if you have the funds) of an IBCLC to come to your home: https://www.lcgb.org/find-an-ibclc/ Usually about £60-£90 for an initial consultation, but if money is a concern, many offer instalment payment options, and while it’s not really a financial decision, when weighed against the cost of months of formula, it can be an excellent investment if it helps you to begin/maintain the breastfeeding relationship with your baby that you want.
There is a fair amount of data that suggests bigger women have lower breastfeeding rates. There are many hypotheses about why this could be, but as yet there are only questions, no answers. The researchers here have designed a workbook intended to support bigger mums to breastfeed, and are looking for your feedback. Does this sound interesting to you and would you be willing to give them your input?
Had a 30+ BMI at the start of pregnancy, gave birth within the last 1months and began and/or are breastfeeding.
Can read and understand English.
If you take part, they will ask you to use the workbook and participate in an interview/focus group. (Interviews can be by phone or in person)
The researchers are planning for the interviews/groups to last approximately 1hr, and you’ll be given a high street voucher as a thank you.
If you have any questions or comments or would like to take part in the study, please contact Stephanie Lyons ([email protected] or 07706123929). See the attached PDF for more information about this important research on the topic of breastfeeding.
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